Confidence helps us to feel peace with ourselves and enables us to use our potential to its full advantage in whatever kind of life we may choose for ourselves. Follow the tips below to give you a positive change in your feelings and behaviour in your everyday life for a firm foundation of confidence:
- Change the way you describe yourself especially when you are under certain circumstances - stop apologising for yourself and giving yourself negative labels. Share positive information of yourself with friends around you
- Be kind to yourself when your feelings are dented or hurt to recover your confidence - do not punish yourself repeatedly for your mistakes. Rewards yourself not just for achievements, but also when you know that you've tried hard
- Take good care of your body - follow good eating habit, do exercise regularly, and give yourself adequate sleep and rest. Remember to go for your periodic medical check-ups so that you are aware of your current health status
- Stimulate your mind - do crosswords, reading, take up new language or courses
- Learn to relax - do exercises or any other activitites that you enjoy doing regularly to release tension
- Adopt self-protection strategies - in terms of home security features and your own financial protection for old age, sickness, or unexpected disasters
- Continuously improve your self-presentation/appearance - you may ask feedbacks from friends or seek advice for the best appearance which suits you the most
- Utilize the power of body language - voice projection and eye contact
- Be prepared - make contigency planning as a habit so that you are always well-prepared for the worst. Do rehearsal before you are going for speeches or presentation
- Become a calculated risk-taker - don't be afraid of changes which are good for improvement. When you make a mistake, note the lessons you've learned
- Be assertive in your requests - be calm and polite even when you are dealing with the people you don't like. Be direct and persistent. Offer compromise if you can. Do not get carried away with your high confidence level. Being confident does not mean that you always get your own way!

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